Avunculate Marriage in the Bible
Avunculate Marriage in the Bible
The term “avunculate marriage” refers to marriage between a man and his niece. In this paper, we will explore the Bible’s view on the permissibility of such unions, and discuss several examples of such marriages in the Bible. Not only does rabbinic literature generally presume that such marriages are permitted, the Talmud even encourages it. On the other hand, other sources ban these relationships. The Sadducees believe that the Bible forbids such marriages. While various Tosafists believe that such marriages are Biblically permitted, they still prohibit marrying one’s niece (at least in some cases) for other reasons.
Abraham & Nahor marry their nieces
Upon close examination, one will find that at least six Biblical personalities married their nieces. Each of these cases can and are interpreted in various ways; calling into question their relevance to our discussion. However, the mere fact that tradition allows for these sorts of interpretations shows that avunculate marriage is compatible with Biblical tradition, and constitutes a legitimate building block in the institution of the Jewish family.
The first two examples of avunculate marriages in the Bible are those between Abraham and Nahor and their respective nieces. The Torah says:
And Terah lived seventy years, and begot Abram, Nahor, and Haran. Now these are the generations of Terah: Terah begot Abram, Nahor, and Haran; and Haran begot Lot. And Haran died in the presence of his father Terah in the land of his nativity, in Ur of the Chaldees. And Abram and Nahor took them wives: the name of Abram’s wife was Sarai; and the name of Nahor’s wife, Milcah, the daughter of Haran, the father of Milcah, and the father of Iscah. (Gen. 11:26–29)
This passage records that Abram (i.e. Abraham), Nahor, and Haran were brothers. Nahor married Milcah, the daughter of Haran; and Abraham married Sarai. According to an ancient tradition preserved in rabbinic sources (Seder Olam Ch. 2; TB Megillah 14a; and TB Sanhedrin 69b) and by Josephus (Antiquities of the Jews Book I, Ch. 6), another name for Sarai is Iscah. The assertion that Sarai is the same person as Iscah is supported by the fact that the Torah provides the paternity of Nahor’s wife Milcah, yet does not mention the paternity of Abraham’s wife Sarai. Given that the Torah delineates one wife’s father, we would have expected it to mention the father of the other wife as well. This difficulty can be resolved if we assume that Sarai is Iscah, since the Torah states that Haran was the father of Iscah.[1]
If we assume that the Haran who is mentioned as Abraham and Nahor’s father-in-law is the same person as their brother Haran, and that Sarai is Iscah, then this passage records two instances of avunculate marriages: Nahor married his niece Milcah and Abraham married his niece Iscah/Sarai. However, it is debatable whether Nahor and Abraham’s marriages to Milcah and Sarai were truly avunculate marriages. In order to claim that they were, one must rely on two assumptions, both of which are subject to dispute. Firstly, Ibn Ezra (to Gen. 11:29) expresses skepticism regarding the identification of Iscah with Sarai.[2] Secondly, even if Iscah is Sarai, some commentators (including Abarbanel(Gen. 11) and the Medieval work Moshav Zeqenim[3]) understand that the Bible refers to two different men named Haran. One was a brother to Abraham and Nahor (and father of Lot); while the other was the father of Iscah/Sarai and Milcah.[4] Accordingly, there is no clear consensus on whether Abraham and Nahor married their nieces.
Dinah’s daughter
Uziel and Miriam
Amram had three children: Miriam, Aaron, and Moses. The Bible records the marriages of both of Amram’s sons: Moses married Zippora daughter of Jethro (Ex. 2:21), and Aaron married Eliseba daughter of Amminadab (Ex. 6:23). However, the Bible does not tell us about the family of Amram’s daughter Miriam.
Rabbinic literature states that she married Caleb (Exodus Rabbah §1:17; Sifrei, Beha’alothkha §78; and TB Sotah 11b–12a). However, according to the apocryphal work The Testament of Amram found amongst the Dead Sea Scrolls at Qumran (4Q543, 4Q549), Amram gave his daughter Miriam to his younger brother Uzziel to wed. That work understands that the sons of Uzziel listed in the Bible (Ex. 6:22) were born to his wife Miriam. Thus, that work believed that Uzziel married his brother’s daughter Miriam.
Othniel and Achsa
Elimelech and Naomi
There is a Talmudic discussion (TB Bava Bathra 91a) regarding the Book of Ruth which explains the relationships between its major players. It asserts that Elimelech (Naomi’s husband), Salmon (Boaz’s father), the anonymous relative who refused to redeem Naomi’s field, and Naomi’s father were all sons of Nahshon ben Amminadab. According to this understanding, Elimelech married his brother’s daughter—Naomi.
However, the Midrash (Ruth Rabbah §6:3) presents a dissenting view that Elimelech was a son of Salmon (and brother to Boaz). According to this understanding, Naomi was not Elimelech’s niece but his first cousin.
Mordecai and Esther
The Talmud encourages marrying one’s niece
poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover
him, and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh? Then shall thy light
break forth as the morning, and thy healing shall spring forth speedily; and
thy righteousness shall go before thee, the glory of the LORD shall be thy
reward. Then shalt thou call, and the LORD will answer; thou shalt cry, and He
will say: ‘Here I am.’… (Is. 58:7–9)
Only Sororal niece, or even fraternal niece?
However, the Tosafists (Tosafot to TB Yevamot 62b) quote in the name of Rashi’s grandson Rashbam that the Talmud’s endorsement also applies to one’s fraternal niece, not just to a sororal niece. He explains that the Talmud specifically mentions marrying a sororal niece simply because it is more common that a man’s sister will convince him to marry her daughter than it is for his brother to do so.
Nonetheless, Rabbeinu Tam disagrees with this assertion and instead maintains that the Talmud only means that one should marry his sororal niece. There are two modes of justifications given for this approach: Firstly, one’s sororal niece is similar to her uncle, as the Rabbis say, “Most children are similar to the brothers of their mother” (TB Baba Bathra 110a, Sofrim 15:10). This similarity between the two will ensure a stronger marriage, and that is precisely what the Talmud means to endorse.
The Rabbinic View regarding Forbidden Relationships
Rabbinic Judaism extends the meanings of the Biblical passages (Lev. 18 and 20) which delineate forbidden relationships. They note that the Torah spoke of the incest laws from the man’s point of reference, but the laws apply equally to a woman. Thus, the Rabbis understand that all incestuous relationships mentioned in the Bible are forbidden to both the man and the woman involved (TB Yevamot 84b). However, the Rabbis do not add more forbidden relationships than those listed by the Bible; they only say that both parties are culpable. The Sadducees, on the other hand, add cases to the Bible’s list and forbid more cases of the same types of relationship. In this, the Rabbis understand the Bible’s meaning differently than the Sadducees and remain more faithful to the text of the Torah than did they.
The Sadducee View Regarding Forbidden Relationships
Case
#: |
The Bible
(Lev. 18 and 20) forbids a man from marrying his… |
The Rabbis
say that this also means that a woman maynot marry her… |
The Sadducees
would say that this also means that one maynot marry his/her… |
Sadducean
approach is redundant because it is already included in case #/New case: |
1
|
Mother
|
Son
|
Daughter/Father
|
(13)
|
2
|
Sister
|
Brother
|
n/a
|
n/a
|
3
|
Father’s wife
|
Husband’s son
|
Wife’s
daughter/Mother’s husband |
9
|
4
|
Granddaughter
|
Grandfather
|
Grandmother/Grandson
|
NEW
|
5
|
Parent’s
sister |
Siblings’ son
|
Niece/Parent’s
brother |
NEW
|
6
|
Father’s
paternal-brother’s wife |
Husband’s
paternal-brother’s son |
Wife’s
paternal-sister’s daughter/Parent’s paternal-sister’s husband, Mother’s paternal-brother’s wife/Husband’s paternal-brother’s son |
NEW (2
scenarios) |
7
|
Daughter-in-law
|
Father-in-law
|
Mother-in-law/Son-in-law
|
12
|
8
|
Brother’s
wife |
Husband’s
brother |
Wife’s
sister/Sister’s husband |
11
|
9
|
Wife’s
daughter |
Mother’s
husband |
Father’s
wife/Husband’s son |
3
|
10
|
Wife’s
granddaughter |
Grandmother’s
husband |
Grandfather’s
wife/Husband’s grandson |
NEW
|
11
|
Wife’s sister
|
Sister’s
husband |
Brother’s
wife/Husband’s brother |
8
|
12
|
Mother-in-law
|
Son-in-law
|
Daughter-in-law/Father-in-law
|
7
|
13
|
Daughter (see
fn. 22) |
Father
|
n/a
|
n/a
|
The Sadducean method of interpretation creates three pairs of redundancies in the Bible’s list (Cases 3, 7, 8, 9, 11, and 12) and also creates four new cases of incest which are not mentioned in the Bible, in addition to marrying one’s niece (Cases 4, 6, two scenarios, 10).
These two points demonstrate the weakness of the Sadducean approach. The method of interpretation used to justify including one’s niece in the Biblical prohibition against marrying one’s aunt would create a series of redundancies in the other listed cases of incest. Furthermore, according to the Sadducean methodology of Biblical interpretation, four other relationships should be classified as incestuous (in addition to marrying one’s niece). However, the Sadducees are inconsistent in that they explicitly mention their added prohibition against marrying one’s niece but fail to account for the other new cases of incest which their methodology creates.[20]
R. Yehuda Ha-Hassid’s view
The 12th century German leader of the Hassidei Ashkenaz movement, R. Judah Ha-Hassid, declares that one should not marry his niece, neither sororal nor fraternal (in his ethical will §22 and in Sefer Hassidim §477). However, his understanding of this prohibition clearly differs from the Sadducean approach. The Sadducees understood that the Bible itself prohibits marrying one’s niece, while Ha-Hassid does not. As a follower of Rabbinic tradition, Ha-Hassid must comply with Talmudic law, yet his mention of a prohibition against marrying one’s niece is clearly at odds with the Rabbinic approach which not only allows for such marriage but even encourages it.
R. Ezekiel Landau of Prague (1713–1793), in his halachik responsa (Noda B’Yehuda, Even HaEzer Tinyana §79), offers an innovative solution. He proves that R. Judah Ha-Hassid only wrote the prohibitions in his will and Sefer Hassidim for his descendants—not for all Jews—because otherwise his prohibition would contradict an explicit Talmudic passage that not only allows but even applauds a man marrying his niece. [24] Others interpret Ha-Hassid’s warning in accordance with contemporary science, which warns of the genetic dangers to children born to an uncle and niece.
Conclusion
There are essentially two general views regarding avunculate marriage in the Bible. The Rabbinic position is that avunculate marriage is permitted by Biblical law. In fact, according to Rabbinic tradition, there are even Biblical precedents for allowing such marriages. Nonetheless, the Rabbis do limit the circumstances under which one may marry his niece. They forbid marrying one’s fraternal niece, since this might interfere with the commandment of the Levirate marriage. There is also the pietistic view of the Hassidei Ashkenaz, who rule that only a pious man may marry his niece (because he will have pure intentions), while the masses should not engage in such unions.
By contrast, the Sadducean approach outlaws avunculate marriage entirely, and attributes this prohibition to the Bible. Even according to Rabbinic tradition, the aforementioned Biblical cases are not unanimously viewed as actually consisting of avunculate marriages. The Sadducees would likely interpret these cases such that they do not serve as precedents for legitimately marrying one’s niece.
A. Feldman (ed.), Pirush HaRan Al HaTorah (Jerusalem: Machon Shalem,
1968) pg. 149.
While Ibn Ezra does not explicitly note his objections to this identification,
other sources quote a question in his name which implies a reject of this
tradition. Ibn Ezra asks that if we assume that the Bible lists Terah’s sons in
order of their birth, then Abraham was at least two years older than Haran.
Furthermore, it is evident from the Bible that Abraham was ten years older than
his wife Sarah (Sarai), as it says Then Abraham fell upon his face, and
laughed, and said in his heart: ‘Shall a child be born unto him that is a
hundred years old? and shall Sarah, that is ninety years old, bear?’ (Gen.
17:17). This would mean that Haran fathered Iscah/Sarai at the extremely
unlikely age of eight. Rabbeinu Hayyim Paltiel answers this objection by
noting that the Talmud (TB Sanhedrin 69b) itself already raised this
point. In fact, it uses this calculation to prove that in early generations men
fathered offspring from as early as the age of eight. See I. S. Lange
(ed.), Pirushei HaTorah L’Rabbeinu Hayyim Paltiel (Jerusalem,
1981) pp. 26–27 and S. Sasson (ed.), Moshav Zeqenim (London,
1959) pg. 15.
Sasson (ed.), Moshav Zeqenim (London, 1959) pg. 15.
commentators propose this distinction because of the fact that the Bible splits
the genealogy of Haran’s descendants into two verses. The first verse only
mentions Lot, while the second says that he was the father of Milcah and Iscah.
However, Kimhi explains these verses in the exact opposite way: He
argues that the Torah sought to clarify that Haran was not only the father of
Lot, but also of Milcah and Iscah (which follows the view that this passage
only discusses one Haran).
Josephus (in Antiquities of the Jews Book II, Ch. 6) also understood
that Joseph’s wife was literally the daughter of Potiphar. However, see Midrash
Sekhel Tov (to Gen. 39:1) and Midrash Tadshe (Ch. 21), printed in J.
D. Eisenstein (ed.), Otzar Midrashim (New York, 1915) pg. 486 and also
cited by Yalkut Shimoni (Joshua §9), which say that Osnath was among
several righteous female converts.
This Midrash appears nowhere else, save for Rabbeinu Hayyim Paltiel’s
commentary. However, there is a similar tradition (Genesis Rabbah
§80:11) which says that Dinah refused to leave the house of Shechem until
Simeon promised to marry her. According to that Midrash, Simeon married his
sister Dinah, not her daughter.
S. Lange (ed.), Pirushei HaTorah L’Rabbeinu Hayyim Paltiel (Jerusalem,
1981) pg. 166.
Talmud (TB Temurah 16a), followed by Rashi (to Jos. 15:17 and Jud.
1:13), writes that Othniel was only Caleb’s maternal brother, not full brother.
The rationale for this statement is that Caleb’s father is always given in the
Bible as Jephunah (Num. 13:6; 14:30; 26:65; 32:12; 34:19; Deut. 1:36′; Josh.
14:6; 14:14; I Chron. 4:15), while Othniel is always mentioned as a son of
Kenaz (Josh. 15:17; Jud. 1:13; 3:9; 3:11; I Chron. 4:13). According to this
approach, after Caleb was born, his mother married someone named Kenaz, and
bore Othniel to him. Rashi remains consistent with this view when he writes (in
his commentary to TB Sukkah 27b) that he is unsure of Othniel’s tribe,
because his relationship to Caleb was only through their mother, and
matrilineal descent does not impart tribal affiliation.
(to Josh. 15:17) adds that in the instances that Caleb also is referred to as a
Kenizzite (Num. 32:12; Josh. 14:6; 14:14), this term is a reference to his
step-father. Kimhi then suggests that Caleb and Othniel were actually
full brothers and that their father had two names: Jephunah and Kenaz (which is
why Caleb is also called a Kenizzite). Ultimately, Kimhi rejects this
approach and argues that the appellation “Kenizzite” refers to the family
of Kenaz, a common ancestor of both Caleb and Othniel. Ha-Parhi (cited
below) and Abarbanel (to Josh. 15:16 and in his introduction to Judges) concur
with Kimhi’s conclusion. [It has yet to be explored whether the term
Kenizzite used in connection with Caleb is related to the Kenizzites, a
Canaanite tribe which God promised Abraham will be conquered by the Israelites
(Gen. 15:19).]
Although, see Targum Rishon earlier (to Esther 2:7 and 2:15) who
explicitly writes that Esther was the daughter of Mordecai’s uncle, making them
first-cousins, not niece and uncle.
Rivlin (ed.), Pirush Megillat Esther L’Rambam (Jerusalem, 1952)
pg. 60.
Tosafot (TB Yevamot 99a) and Tosafot Yeshanim (ibid. 62b).
The same point is made earlier by Rav Sherira Gaon (who predated Rabbeinu Tam)
in a responsum printed by M. Grossberg (ed.), Gvul Menashe (Frankfurt,
1899) pg. 15.
Abraham Haim Schor (d. 1632) writes (Torat Haim to TB Sanhedrin
76b) that marrying one’s sororal niece is especially praiseworthy because
according to Biblical law, a daughter does not inherit her deceased father’s
property unless he has no sons. Accordingly, there is likely animosity between
a man and his sister, for the former will inherit their father’s property and
the latter will not. Therefore, it is especially praiseworthy for a man to
marry his sister’s daughter in order to alleviate this animosity and show his
sister that even she will derive benefit from their deceased father’s estate. Tosafot
Shantz, as quoted by Ashkenazi, offers a very similar approach and adds
that marrying one’s brother’s daughter does not achieve the same effect because
one’s paternal brother will in any case inherit his father’s property. In this,
Tosafot Shantz offers another strong argument for Rabbeinu Tam’s position.
Y. Blau (ed.), Shitah Mekubetzet Yevamot (New York: Shitat HaKadmonim,
1986) pg. 302. See also Shitah Mekubetzet (to TB Nedarim 63b) who
also seems so inclined.
Hoffman (ed.), Meshivat Nefesh (Jerusalem: Machon Yerushalayim, 1998)
pg. 18.
also Meiri (to TB Yevamot 62b) who seems to agree with Maimonides.
a similar explanation, R. Todros HaLevi ben Joseph Abulafia (1225–1285), a
nephew of R. Meir Abulafia, writes that marrying one’s sister’s daughter is
especially meritous because his sister likely has financial difficulties in
marrying off her daughter. Hida (Birkei Yosef to Even HaEzer
§2:6) quotes this unpublished explanation of R. Todros and adds that according
to this, there is no difference between a sororal niece and a fraternal niece,
the difference is only in whether the groom’s sibling has financial
difficulties.
Schechter (ed.), Documents of Jewish Sectaries Vol. 1, Fragments of a
Zadokite Work (Cambridge, 1910) pg. 5.
Interestingly, Midrash Mishpatim lists the prohibition of marrying one’s
niece before it lists one’s aunt, while the Temple Scroll lists
marrying one’s niece afterwards.
E. Eshel, “The Proper Marriage according to the Genesis Apocryphon and Related
Texts,” Meghillot: Studies in the Dead Sea Scrolls Vol. 8–9 (Jerusalem:
Bialik Institute, 2010) pp. 29–51, who discusses numerous examples of the DSS
embellishing Biblical passages by adding marriages between first cousins. She
explains that the authors of those scrolls added cases of marriage between
first cousins and not between man and his niece precisely because the Qumranic
sect believed the latter to be forbidden.
should be noted that three out of four of those cases (i.e. grandmother,
mother’s paternal brother’s wife, and grandfather’s wife) are explicitly banned
by Rabbinic decree, even though according to Rabbinic interpretation they are
permitted by Biblical law (see TB Yevamot 21a).
Lieberman, Tosefta Ki-fshutah (New York: JTS, 1973) pg. 915. Cf. E.
Segal, “Sarah and Iscah: Method and Message in Midrashic Tradition”, JQR,
vol. 82:4, pp. 417–429 who seems content to similarly explain the Midrashic
identification of Sarah with Iscah (mentioned above).
Ha-Parhi, in his abovementioned polemic against Sadducees, writes that
should one meet a Sadducee, one should tell him that according to Sadducean
religion one is allowed to marry his daughter because the Bible does not
explicitly forbid it and the Sadducees do not recognize the hermeneutical
arguments set forth by the Rabbis (TB Sanhedrin 76a) for its
prohibition. However, in light of the above, Ha-Parhi’s polemic is no
longer applicable because according to the Sadducees’ internal logic, marrying
one’s daughter is included in the prohibition of marrying one’s mother because
both are a violation of the child-parent relationship. That is, the Torah
forbids a man to lie with his mother and both Rabbinic and Sadducean
interpretation extend this prohibition to a woman who is forbidden from lying
with her son. However, Sadducean interpretation would also argue that included
in this prohibition is a man lying with his daughter because the Torah’s intent
is not simply to forbid a man and his mother, but to declare incestuous any
fornication between the child-parent line. The Rabbis, on the other hand,
understood that this is not the intent of the Torah and instead offer their own
source for the prohibition of marrying one’s daughter.
Stillman (ed.), “Malik al-Ramlī.” Encyclopedia of Jews in the
Islamic World (Brill Online, 2013).
an extensive survey of various authorities who agree or disagree with Landau’s
characterization of the prohibition cited by R. Yehuda Ha-Hassid, see Sdei
Hemed Vol. 7 (Brooklyn: Kohath Publishing, 1950) pp. 2483ff.
S. Guttman (ed.), Sefer Tzava’at Rabbi Yehuda HaHassid HaMefoar
(Jerusalem: Otzar HaPoskim, 2011) pp. 177–188 for an in-depth analysis of Ha-Hassid’s
stance on the topic.